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NEW YEAR, BETTER ME – Trend Steele NYC


NEW YEAR, BETTER ME – Trend Steele NYC

FACING MY MORTALITY

2023 was an unbelievable yr for me, I can’t lie. It was among the best years of my life but it surely wasn’t with out it’s challenges. I had a well being scare mid-summer of 2023 that solely a handful of individuals find out about. I used to be recognized with a big organ after having a routine physique scan for one more ailment. An organ, that when enlarged, means a hosts of unhealthy issues are occurring inside your physique. With out getting in depth, I instantly started to query my existence and the way lengthy I had left to dwell. I broke down and cried fairly a number of instances however a small a part of me really felt consolation in understanding that I’ve lived an excellent life. A life that I’d constructed from the bottom up. A life far greater than I may have ever imagined for myself. It took 1,000,000 blood assessments and physique scans and almost 2 months of agonizing whereas ready for outcomes but it surely turned out that my situation was benign. I used to be simply born that approach apparently. And despite the fact that I believed up till that time, that I’d be okay if it was my time to go, I undoubtedly felt a shift in me. Being confronted together with your mortality has a approach of doing that. The dying of a beloved one additionally has a approach of doing that. However the additional we get from these jarring life occasions, the simpler it’s to overlook and fall again within the patterns of present, as an alternative of residing. 

NEW YEAR, BETTER ME – Trend Steele NYC

NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS

I don’t have many resolutions. I wouldn’t even name them resolutions. I simply plan to be a greater pal, daughter, sister, granddaughter, cousin and niece this yr. I need the folks I like to know and really feel that I like them…on a regular basis. Even once they get on my nerves. I’d additionally prefer to retire my grandmother, begin a scholarship for Black Girls in Bodily Remedy at my alma mater and put manage the primary household reunion for the reason that matriarch of our household died a number of years in the past. I’d like to raised myself and my mind by studying and writing on a regular basis. A apply I start earlier than the New 12 months. I discover that it’s straightforward to let your mind wither away whereas aimlessly scrolling Instagram, or placing on the newest TV present for binge watching. I discover that I’m most inventive once I’m studying or writing and I need extra of that fireside, ardour and creativity in 2024. Though I’ve been maintaining, and doing nicely, the creativity has most definitely left the constructing and I’ve been working on autopilot. Simply sufficient to maintain afloat.

NEW YEAR, BETTER ME – Trend Steele NYC

RESOLUTIONS CONTINUED…

I didn’t have loads rising up and I grew up fearing being poor and never having the ability to present for a household, ought to I resolve to have one. It took many many a few years to interrupt freed from that worry. It’s one of many issues that held me again from going Full-Time as a content material creator. The worry of being with out. The worry of not understanding the place my subsequent test was coming from. Even after years of getting a gradual and unbelievable revenue, I used to be nonetheless in worry. I lastly let that worry go in 2023 and I’m not wanting again. Generally worry is nice, like in situations of life and dying. However I discover that worry of the unknown has been the largest impediment in the best way of me pursuing issues in life that I do know would make me a happier individual and thus a greater individual. It’s alright to do issues, even once you’re afraid as a result of it might probably push you into your goal. Trials and tribulations present you what you’re product of. Anytime I’m going by means of a tough time, I simply assume to myself: that is going to be a juicy a part of the memoir of my life that I’m subconsciously writing in my thoughts on a regular basis. Even once you’re in survival mode, attempt to take the time to take pleasure in life and the place you’re at that second in time and the issues to be pleased about even when you’re not on the place you thought you’d be at the moment. I’m undecided why I’m even telling you all what I plan to do, however perhaps it might probably allow you to put issues in perspective when pondering of your personal objectives for 2024. They are saying you shouldn’t inform your objectives or your plans, however I do every thing I say I’m going to do, so I don’t really feel the necessity to not share or overshare.

NEW YEAR, BETTER ME – Trend Steele NYC
NEW YEAR, BETTER ME – Trend Steele NYC

PLAN THE VISION

They are saying you make plans and God laughs and I consider that to be true however I additionally consider that God helps those that assist themselves. The one factor that has helped me recover from my worry is religion. Stepping out on blind religion and believing and understanding and dealing and prepared myself into the life I need and crave and need and deserve. There’s a sense of give up and a launch of fear once you notice, you don’t must do all of it. You’ve gotten assist and more often than not you’re geared up with the instruments to do no matter you could do to get to the life you need. To assist me do this I create a imaginative and prescient board. I normally get a thumb tack board from Amazon. I sit down with a number of of my favourite magazines and rip and minimize out inspiration akin to: issues I need, manufacturers I need to work with, numbers I need to hit, items I’d like to accumulate, journeys I’d prefer to take. Then I simply have a look at it on a regular basis, unintentionally. It’s someplace in my peripheral (particularly in my workplace in Harlem). Would you consider me once I inform you that by the top of the yr, I’ve to take away many of the photographs, as a result of all of the issues manifest.

It’s really kinda scary in one of the best ways, what your thoughts subconsciously works in direction of every day with out you even noticing it. Since I cut up my time now between Harlem and Miami, I made a decision to create a imaginative and prescient board on Canva. I simply saved a number of photographs, manufacturers I need to work with and such and dropped them right into a template. I then saved it as my wallpaper for my laptop computer. Whether or not I need to or not, I’ll see these photos, these numbers, these objectives each single day and I’ll simply place confidence in the remainder. I additionally invested in an precise planner. I’ve one from Louis Vuitton however I actually wanted a 3 ring binder so I can maintain monitor of my campaigns, due dates, schedules for Youtube and Thank You emails to ship. I ordered 2024 Planner Inserts from The Line Store and might’t wait to arrange my new planner. I additionally purchased one other Louis Vuitton Black Epi Agenda to deal with my every day journal. I discover that beginning my day with a synopsis of the day earlier than and doing somewhat mind dump and chronicle of my life (for the memoir and the film LOL) helps me decompress and begin my time without work gentle. 

NEW YEAR, BETTER ME – Trend Steele NYC

THE FIRST MOVE

My first transfer of 2024 was to guide a visit. January is a month of rebirth for me and for me to seize and discover new passions and ignite outdated ones. That at all times occurs for me once I’m surrounded by natures magnificence. So we might be touring loads this month. If reality I’m penning this weblog put up from my favourite chair in Harlem. I’m in New York for a number of days having fun with a little bit of chilly crisp climate. This month is about reveling in delight and discovering the enjoyable and starvation once more as an alternative of coasting on what I’ve already constructed. I need to forge forward anew with one thing somewhat totally different. One thing somewhat new however one thing that also me. A greater me. 

Joyful New 12 months

Monroe 

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